How self-aware do you consider yourself to be?
- Are you aware of your strengths and weaknesses?
- Do you know what kind of things trigger your emotional and physical responses in daily life?
- Are you conscious of the opportunities and challenges that present themselves to you daily, and what your options are to overcome them?
Self-awareness is an often-underestimated skill that anyone can learn to improve with the right activities.
The more you understand yourself, the more likely it is that you will be able to reach your long-term goals, find happiness, and even strengthen your overall confidence and self-esteem.
In this article, we are going to be looking at some of the ways you can quickly and effectively raise your self-awareness and overcome moments of confusion.
Self-awareness is the art of paying attention to the way you think, behave, and feel. It means looking carefully at patterns in the way you perceive the world, yourself, and the people around you.
Self-awareness also includes understanding your moods and emotions and how they influence the things you do.
Someone who is self-aware can pay attention to their actions in any situation and determine whether they are really taking the best steps to maintain their interests, or whether they could be walking in the wrong direction.
If you have negative default responses to things, self-awareness can help you to overcome them. For instance, those with alcohol issues or cigarette addictions often benefit from becoming more self-aware.
So, how do you become more self-aware? Try these techniques.
1. Notice What Bothers You About Others
This might seem counterintuitive, as paying attention to others pulls the focus away from you. However, sometimes, when we are struggling with our own self-awareness, we find it easier to project the things we don’t like in ourselves onto other people.
For instance, you might find that you absolutely detest it when others lie to you. However, if you look a little closer at your own actions, you might discover that you tend to bend the truth too – even if only in certain aspects of your life.
Make a list of the properties you dislike about other people and try to focus on pinpointing the moments when you show those characteristics yourself.
At the same time, it may also be helpful to make a list of the things you like to see in others, so you can actively try to show more of those aspects yourself.
2. Pay Attention to Your Thought Processes
Many of us have ingrained responses to things that we have developed over time. For instance, people who smoke tend to reach for a cigarette automatically whenever they feel stressed or overwhelmed. Sometimes, these processes are so automatic that we don’t even realize what’s happening until we have already done something.
If you want to be more self-aware, take a moment to pause the next time you have an automatic response to something. Be aware of how you have responded in that moment and try going back through your thought processes. What led you from the point of feeling stressed to opening your first bottle of beer, for instance?
Sometimes, it won’t be a specific thought or series of thoughts that led to the action, but a simple feeling, or gut desire for something. The more you make yourself aware of those automated reactions, the more you can begin to question them when you notice them starting.
You can also become more aware of the triggers that cause those responses to happen.
3. Ask for Feedback
Finally, asking for feedback can help you to become more aware of the things that others see in you.
Sometimes, we are so used to the image that we create of ourselves in our own mind, that we replace reality with our own perception. We all have blind spots that make it more difficult to solve the real problems we have in our lives.
For instance, you might think that your biggest issue is that you can’t control your emotions when something happens in your relationship. However, your partner might think that the problem is that you don’t talk enough about how you feel.
Asking for insights from others in your life allows you to view your actions and feelings from a different perspective.
Just ensure that you are comfortable with the person you ask for feedback from. If you don’t like the person very much, or you don’t trust their opinion, then this is going to distort your perception of yourself even further.
Once you receive the feedback, remember to take it well. Avoid looking at negative comments as a direct attack on you. Instead, see them as a chance to develop and grow.
You can strengthen your self-awareness by using these simple strategies. Once you do, you will find that, not only do you know yourself better, but your life also becomes more enjoyable.
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